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How many of us actually, precisely know what we are looking for???
...looking for in our lives, looking for in ourselves, looking for in the people who are to share our space for the rest of our lives...
is a clarity on that account too much and too tough to ask for?
is a clarity on that front required?
or is it just the unnecessary thinking of a "wandering mind"...
what is it that makes some people so special? what is it that makes certain people understand every underlying emotion without our having to say anything? why is it that only some people understand and connect with us in that manner? why is it that the ones who were not to understand and connect with us in that desired, whimsical manner meet up with us, come in contact with us?
...is it correct to adage words like 'WHIM AND DESIRE' with connection?
should connections not be JUST about those virtues of desire and whim?
...from where does that longing of being read like an open book come from?
how can we expect someone who is not "us" to understand us better than we can comprehend ourselves at times?
...is that fair???
or is there something else? something that we completely 'amiss' or probably are not just ready to accept...or maybe not aware of the powers of...
...are those connections not a manifestation of certain qualities associated with the persona of every individual we meet? we might not understand ourselves completely ...or probably we just don't have the time to jot down and prioritize our thoughts, our fantasies specifically and we end up confusing ourselves with certain "seemingly similar" but rather "quiet different" issues...or we just end up flowing with the tides of the sea while deciding on a destination and chalking out a route to it...
...but would it be incorrect, then, to not abandon the shore the tides have brought us to...as it means deserting the land that once sheltered us from the storm?
Though, is the correctness of that decision not questionable as we did not want to come to the shore we are now standing on? No matter how late in life but we would, probably, at some point realize that there was a particular destination we were wanting to reach but may be because the tides were so strong or probably we had weakened for a particular time interval that we simply couldn't reach the "desired" side of the shore and rather are now on a side that is not where we had envisaged ourselves to be.
What do we now do? what is the right thing to be done? who is to judge "right and wrong"?
...should here be any "judgements" involved?
would the extra time taken amount to an "unfair play"...why should the play be tagged unfair?
...WERE THERE ANY RULES SET???

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